Sunday, July 23, 2017

What should you do when He broke your heart?

In case you just googled a question like this and ended up landing on this blog page, you should continue reading this one I guess.

Perhaps, a lot of friends, colleagues or close ones must have already used the phrase " Move On" and must have told you that he is not interested in you and there lies no future ahead of you.
You, perhaps, on other hand must be trying really hard to get over and move on but may be suffering is still destined and henceforth, this blog.

He, could be the one you thought might be happy with you. He might be the one you thought you can live a life with. He might be the one you thought will love you with all his heart like you did.
He might be the one who was more worried about himself than was for you. He could have easily been yours but he made it so difficult for you to even have a conversation without ending up in a fight and making you regret. He might have easily given in to if you had not shown him your passionate side, your affection for him.
Because Men ; most men are pigs. They will only be after you unless they have you. And, once they see that you care, they get a panic attack. They keep running away.
May be by the time, you must be all filled with His thoughts, he might be out for a vacation and make be having a close dance with a stranger and not even thinking about you.

If any of the above descriptions fit, please please please stop any more communication with him.

1. You might be thrilled with that Hello but he just does not give a damn.

2. Begin your life again throwing him out of it.
Remember when a thorn is stuck into your foot and how you throw it away..
Similarly throw him out.

3. If you think he is gonna regret it. Please take that thought out of your mind because you are never sure after one fight, he might be tagged as some other girl's best friend meme.
While you are sad, he  must be living his life to the fullest.

4. Some people don't get it why someone is so much attached to them. Why He is like a family to you. But, may be you are just another girl he is fooling around with.

5. And, sometimes people have so much going on their lives, that you can be a part of their lives for sometime but not forever.

6.It’s amazing how one person’s trauma is merely an incident for another person and just a piece of news for yet another. be completed.

Letting Go.....!!

23rd July 2017,
I was very small when the concept of letting go was introduced to me.

It was merely an incident which still holds a place in my heart about leaving my city, my school and my friends. Most importantly my home sweet home and my little precious garden. I had to leave my roads, the shops and everything I knew about.
It was devastating. For another year, I could not recover. I had my friends call me every now and then.
Some even send a few cards or letters or gifts. But, so far the line which still got me move on to my life was said by one of my fav. teachers who described letting go as:
" Our mind can't remember all the memories and thus, for creating the new ones, we need to forget the old ones."
This was one sentence which a 7th A class thought me. 

Sometimes, I think the 12 year old me was way more smarter and decision  maker than the current me. 
Sometimes, in life "Let Go" is just a word. You know that it is an action which you need to take but somehow you can't.

The 12 year old me started believing that it is better to enjoy the solitude than grieve the  loss of someone. I still recall not getting attached to people so that the pain of loss will be less(which included changing cities or schools not the relationship kind).
Sometimes, I wish letting go was never the case if I could have followed those easy rules of no attachment. But, then the stupid heart.

Seriously, does heart even know that it screws it's own body and soul so much.
If heart was a living being, I would have murdered it by now.

Letting Go and moving on suddenly are the most difficult two letter words.

Thursday, June 22, 2017

Runaway Words!

They keep running away far from me, in the directions I won't be able to seek them.
Word, My Words! Come back to me.

Wednesday, March 9, 2016

What the Pandora Box brought!!

As we grew up, the difference between the fictitious world and real world became more and more evident. As a child and a Bollywood fan, I believed in the true love and the power of it.
I thought people change when they find affection for themselves in someone else.
I believed that some friendships remain all throughout life and they are your greatest support system and further I believed there is always someone for each one out there.

May be this is the saddest post I am writing or may be this is what happens with everyone.
Friendships - I guess they always stay but then how suddenly a guy's importance becomes more valuable than your family's or friend's worth. Who knows?
May be the only pure relation is that of a couple. How does it even matter what happens to the so called family!!

Coming to true love,..well Wake Up Sid made a crazy, lazy Sid find love and take up responsibility.
But, in reality, I guess people don't change. They have it inbuilt in their genes and are too stubborn too change even for the good. I guess when a guy tells you that they are the bad ones., they actually are!! Never doubt it and never ever seek that good part in them. B'coz in the end, good people get torn and they are not really sure why.
May be life teaches you so many things at one go that one day the heart loses it's power to acknowledge loss of people.

But when heart gets devoid of any pain, it takes in with it too many pains and losses and heartaches.
Pain can only caused if you have some hope from someone else.
Perhaps, you get to live and see how you can live with a stoic heart.
This Women's Day, I hope every women out there becomes strong enough to tackle & handle this world on their own and only enter a person's existing so called perfect life when treated with every tint of respect and love which she deserves.

Hoping world becomes a better place to live in or We just have to become Stronger, Wiser & Brazen!

Wednesday, February 10, 2016

Let GO..

Sometimes, it is better to let go. It will atleast save the memories.

Sunday, November 22, 2015

Love Happens!!

"May be if he cared enough, he would never have left", she pondered while trying to put her broken heart to sleep. "May be she will understand someday", he sipped that coffee and took a deep breathe.

Monday, May 11, 2015

#PiKu !!

10th May 2015

Fingers on the keyboard are just waiting for the right words to complement the epic way Piku has been narrated and pictured.

Piku is the story of a daughter who is busy baby sitting her 70 yrs old Baba, Amitabh Bachchan.
From the first scene towards the end, Piku mesmerizes you on the various events and close to reality conversations, the family arguments and various discussions whose root cause is "Motion" which is sometimes also aptly referred to as "Mango Pulp" - Well it is summers indeed ! ;-)

Ofcourse, the movie is predictable. An eccentric father, a caring yet stubborn daughter and a terrific Taxi Owner (Irfan). Midway, the aptly captured culture of Delhi and Kolkata.
Well, to describe how well defined the punches were or how real the performance is not really a point to discuss.Piku, indeed has conveyed so many messages with sarcasm or as we term the witty humor.

Piku is a daughter's effort to take care of her aged father. There is a dialogue where Deepika says, " Parents cant live on their own after an age, they have to be kept alive." True indeed. Piku maintains an emotional connect to the audience because of the sensitive topic like parenting.

While Baba leaves no stone unturned to keep the life of everyone around him miserable, he is still the most lovable character. There are a few instances which have touched my heart the most specially when Baba mentions that only low IQ people get married. At first, the sentence seems hilarious. On a second thought, my brain says Mom would have definitely be agreeing with Baba. But, on the third instance when Baba explains, only Marriage with a purpose is worthy. You can't agree more with him.
Of the least I know about India, marriage becomes the circumcentre of all life activities. And, then at some point of time, marriage becomes the sole purpose of a women's life. Although the world is changing. But, deep down the concept of equalization is still alien for Indians. Now, they need a working women to share the expenses and not a meaningful life. Obviously, we can't generalize everything but for a large population, it is this scenario.

Piku's independent yet arrogant attitude reflects how inhuman can a person be while she constantly blames drivers for the accident. The best part of Sircar is that he has conveyed these thoughts with light comedy where you keep laughing. As they say, the best of messages and worst of comments are given with the pinch of sarcasm & comedy to keep the environment healthy & light. But, then the same Piku is tolerant towards each and every Motion details about her Baba.

Not to forget, Irfan Khan's stupendous comedy timing and natural acting talent. Each and every dialogue is delivered with a straight face, with sarcasm and with sheer awesomeness. The wittiness and the connect is
A movie's success is also depended on the dialogues. Juhi Chaturvedi, dialogue writer for Piku has done a spectacular job by keeping it light, close to real life conversations and importantly, close to the culture.
The Kolkata glimpses are simply adorable.

Piku, as have been said by all, is not a romantic movie. It is an effort to make today's children realise their duties towards their parents. Perhaps, Piku is a beautiful gift given by Bollywood on this Mother's day.
A must watch!!

Tuesday, December 30, 2014

That World of Fiction!!

And, the voice goes louder. Not even sure if it is in your ears or your head. But, the spinning sound goes on and perhaps makes you forget everything else.
In literal sense, the world goes mute and it is you and the music.
Yes, Music does that to you. It creates the void around the rest of the world and creates a world of your own.

The other day, it seemed pretty lame to walk towards home. Plugged the headphones, put on a few
favorite songs and the burden subsided eventually.
Perhaps, it is all about creating a world of your own. And, the idleness will vanish.

It is all about sidelining the clutter, noises and may be people for sometime.
Try creating a peaceful world of your own fiction. 'Coz sometimes, fiction is better than the reality.

To another year which just rushed. Yes, this one did rush a lot.
Happy New Year!! Hoping to write a little more and better. :-)