Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Date a girl who Reads!!



Books have always been our best friends.

In times of distress,
In time of need,
In times of happiness and In times of greed.
The happiness bestowed upon us
is self satisfying.
It is peaceful and gratifying.

I have often heard : People related to Literature are a little crazy.
They are always lost in their own world of thoughts and imaginations.
Personally, I have always been fascinated by people who read, moreover, those who write.
Recently, I came across below lines about dating and marrying a girl who reads and it flattered me a lot:-
Imagination is not every one's stuff. Only few people can make friends with their words.
Imagine a girl engrossed in Reading: She must be a thorough reader.
More importantly, she must be creative and may have dealt with a thousand situations which she had already come across during her journey through those pages.
While I was reading Kite Runner, every line had some very deep meanings.
Simple combination of words just held on to emotions so well which only a great writer can combine in such a beautiful world of art.
Reading changes our perspective.Things become instances, incidents become observations and life turns to have a more meaningful virtue than imagined.

Have you felt that essence of eternal bliss with a cup of coffee and a few pages of your book swaying and words creating space in your mind, heart and life.


A girl who reads is able to give space to her mate. She has the capacity to not want you every time
because her books will always keep her busy.
There is a requirement of self-space (if it's the word). Life is only complete when every thing in it has a complete balance.

It is difficult to find that perfect cup of coffee with the exact the tastes you like, quantity of sugar to choose from. Life is more beautiful while we have created our own world of dreams.

As they say:
If you want the world and,
the world beyond it,
Date a girl who reads.
Or better yet, date a girl who writes.






Serene, calm and Creative !!

Sunday, May 19, 2013

A world of Self Love Or Self Denial !!

They say, we are immersed in a world of Self-Love and praise and have definitely forgotten the essence of affection. True, Isn't it?
But, Is it wrong to love yourself than to love a person who will never, perhaps, value and acknowledge your presence in his/her life.
Too Bad!!
Well, I have no idea why but God made us that way.
Einstein's theory that "each force has equal and opposite reaction."Yeah, that's correct.. Opposite Reactions.. Lol.

And, thus we ended in an era where A cares for B, B cares for C and C is not bothered about both A & B.Seems like or very story of Vampire Diaries.


For all those, who are not a TVD fan. Let me brief.
The 3 main characters: Stefen and Damon are Vampire brothers and Elena -The love of their life swinging around which guy to spend life with.
There's more to the story definitely. I just linked it to self love and Denial part of my article.

Such is the story of each of us who devoted a greater amount of their lives for a person who didn't care to hold on that long. You can ask yourself is it the greatest tragedy of all.
No, it is not!!
The greatest is denying to move on, to build walls which nobody is allowed to break, to see the world through the eyes of that one experience.

Humans are able to lead such a beautiful life just b'coz of one thing-"They tend to forget."
Forgive, forget and be happy in the present.Past has already left us. Future is still unseen. And, Present is today.Choose a world of self love, it will make life more satisfying, even more beautiful.
We, all, have at some point of time faced self denial. That one moment where we are not sure of what went wrong and what is next. This is an infinite loop if we don't know how to end up loving ourselves.

"Love Yourself, nobody else can love you better, until you find that one person.. to be OPTIMISTIC as always."

-XOXO

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